We get into situations when we can’t control ourselves and start quarrelling with others.  Sometimes we feel relief after arguing and many times we get embarrassed after realizing our mistakes, but it’s too late to erase what we have done. There are lots of methods of controlling anger or we can say anger management. 

From my point of view, we can control anger by answering a simple question.

Why we get aggressive over little or ordinary things and when we could solve the problem easily then why we shout or argue with others?

The day I answered this question I have stopped bring aggressive and over thinking.

I answered myself “I get angry because I feel like I should be angry and argue because if I didn’t do so it is not me!!” I felt myself so stupid that what I was doing and when I could solve the situation it’s useless to fight over ordinary things..

Do ask yourself the same question if you are angry person or get hyper quickly.

Thank you for reading. Share your suggestions!


Writing in respond to today’s one word “Angry” prompt


20 Comments

Ngobesing Romanus · June 1, 2016 at 8:15 pm

Anger is like a little madness.

    Aki · June 1, 2016 at 8:27 pm

    Exactly… !!

Accidentally Single · June 2, 2016 at 12:17 am

I rarely get angry. I get frustrated but rarely angry. It takes a lot for me to get there.

    Aki · June 2, 2016 at 6:45 am

    That’s great! You are a generous personality 🙂

The Analyzed Life · June 2, 2016 at 12:28 am

It takes a lot for me to get angry. I only get mad if someone else is unreasonably angry

    Aki · June 2, 2016 at 6:43 am

    If you don’t get angry easily then you’re awesome! ! 😀
    Oh it happens sometimes surroundings effect over mood.

      The Analyzed Life · June 2, 2016 at 2:30 pm

      Thank you:) I just find anger to be such a waste of emotion and energy

        Aki · June 3, 2016 at 11:00 am

        Exactly!!! 🙂

uma197 · June 2, 2016 at 3:53 am

I dont know, I think anger is ok, but we do with that anger is what matters. We need to calm down and think rationally when get angry over some one or something. If I get angry that my kids have not made the bed, I think is it really that bad, or I can tell them to make the bed or they will have to mow the lawn. The same thing can be applied to different situations big or small. I dont see the point breaking things or becoming violent and enraged. Achieves nothing.

    Aki · June 2, 2016 at 6:42 am

    I strongly agree with your last statement that it’s useless to be so much violent. Mothers get angry because we as a child become too mischievous 😀 however mothers are really sweet sometimes they don’t get angry but when she is angry then oh my God! 😀
    Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts

shreyans · June 2, 2016 at 7:03 am

What others say is their own opinion, they can do anything they like, but if you are getting angry then it is on you…and that is stupid…..Because you are harming yourselves..nice message..
and everyone should ask that question whenever angry..
keep writing
regards
shreyans

    Aki · June 2, 2016 at 7:06 am

    You are right, it is like harming oneself! ! Thanks for sharing your thoughts

      shreyans · June 2, 2016 at 8:35 am

      you are welcome..)
      regards
      shreyans

DarShu · June 3, 2016 at 11:36 am

There are people who get Angry easily…
So is the Case wid Me! 😆
But you need to Look Around, & you will Surely find the Reason to Calm Down! ☺😊

    Aki · June 3, 2016 at 11:39 am

    Oh that’s really good.. people must not be rage full.
    I was angry person but now I have learned to be nice, because it’s useless to be aggressive.

      DarShu · June 3, 2016 at 11:45 am

      Yeah, it is actually useless…
      but still I’m learning to Control the HULK inside 😂😂☺

        Aki · June 3, 2016 at 11:47 am

        😀 hulk this is funny!!
        And I’m controlling a fire dragon inside.

          DarShu · June 3, 2016 at 11:49 am

          hehe…
          better for Us if dey dont Unleash themselves ☺😀

          Aki · June 3, 2016 at 11:51 am

          Exactly! !! 😀

bygracealoneweb · September 2, 2016 at 2:24 am

Great post! I think what you touch on is very important..the real reason why are we getting mad and sometimes (when we’ve calmed down) our reasons seem waaay more stupid then when we were mad LOL This post may help you out also: https://bygracealoneweb.wordpress.com/2016/08/22/ashes-for-beauty-for-ashes/
have a great day!

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